Flight passenger says man deliberately squatted in window seat, ignites social media debate

One flyer said she recently encountered a seat squatter on her flight and claimed she was shamed for asking the person to move.

In the forum "r/delta" on Reddit, the post was titled, "Man takes my window seat in lieu of his own window seat. On purpose."

"I boarded my 3-hour Delta flight toward the middle of boarding, yet still in flow with my zone. The entire time I'm thinking, 'I pray no one's in my seat!' I'm seated in C+ (F) side, which is a window seat - my personal preference," the post read.

The user said that once she approached her aisle, she spotted a man sitting in her seat.

"I reconfirm my seat assignment and politely say, 'Sir, I think you're in my seat.' He motions with his hand toward the (A) window seat on the opposite side of the same aisle and says, 'Take that one,'" the user continued.

"I panned back at the 'gentleman' and replied, 'No, I'd like to take my seat if you don't mind.' What he said next made me know he was calculated in his actions. He replied, 'Fine, if you want to make three men get up so you can sit here' and huffed," she wrote in her post.

The user continued, "I didn't say a word, I just stood there until one by one, they started to shuffle and get up and move to allow me to sit in MY seat. The absolute nerve and 'guilt' attempt."

Reddit users took to the comments section to discuss the encounter.

"YOU'RE making three men move, not me," wrote one user. 

"This entitlement will continue as long as people don't stand up for themselves. Well done," another user said.

"His actions made 'men have to move,'" one person commented. 

"The FA's [flight attendants] rarely intervene," said one.

"I will never forget when something similar happened to me and my husband. The man in [a window seat] was UPSET [when] my husband, the man, took the middle seat and even made a comment about how he should [take] the aisle," another person commented.

"Let the flight attendant handle it. Nobody wants to go viral in a reel titled, 'Passenger meltdown at 30,000 feet,'" Blewett advised. 

"[Squatter] encounters often lead to delays that [can] cascade, leading to missed connections and frustrated passengers throughout the cabin," Blewett added.