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Young men on being Republican in New York: ‘It caused all types of consternation among my friends’

Young men on being Republican in New York: ‘It caused all types of consternation among my friends’


Young men on being Republican in New York: ‘It caused all types of consternation among my friends’

In New York City, Republicans are something of a rarity. Only 10% of New Yorkers are Republicans, according to 2021 voter registration data, and the state is polling bright blue for Kamala Harris. But the Republican party has not called it quits.

"You live in a blue city, but it's going red very, very quickly," Donald Trump claimed at a Bronx rally in May. Step into the suburbs, and Republican candidates have enough momentum to turn multiple House elections - and ultimately, control of the House - into nail-biters.

It's an interesting time for the New York Young Republicans Club (NYYRC). The club brings together conservative New Yorkers 40 and under to socialize, campaign and discuss policy; recent events have included debate watch parties and a self-defense course in light of "illegal military-age male immigrants flooding our country, the threat of World War III, and New York's insistence on stripping our Second Amendment rights". It's using this momentum in New York to branch out to other Republican youth organizations around the country.

This year, the photographer Paola Chapdelaine spent time with four male members of NYYRC and one male member of the nearby Connecticut Young Republicans, who represent a nationwide trend of young men increasingly embracing the right. Here, they explain how they found their way to the Republican party as young men in a liberal city and what they think of political polarization in America.

When I was an undergrad, I saw a woman on the train with a button on her backpack that said "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle". I remember completely disagreeing with that. This move towards dissolving the family, or saying that we don't need each other and we could just be these totally individualized, autonomous beings with no connection to family, with no connection to our history, I reject that idea. I think we're all connected to something greater. I guess that's what makes me a conservative.

Recently, I thought I had a great rapport with a date - lots of laughter, great chemistry. Then, the morning of the second date, she [texted]: "Hey, I did some thinking, and never mind. I would not like to go on a date with you." I immediately knew that she Googled me. I'm not a rightwing vigilante, but I write for conservative publications.

If I start immediately in a relationship by saying: "Hi, I'm Frank, I'm a conservative," then I'm setting myself up for failure. I say: "Hi, I'm Frank, I have a cat that I love. These are my hobbies. I play guitar." That's not to say you should be deceptive about your beliefs, but it is to say that you should be cognizant of the political polarization in this country. I think it was Muhammad Ali who said that he judges people based on how they treat waiters at restaurants. Similarly, how do you treat animals? I think squabbling over the tax code, or the right number of immigrants we should have per year, or how you feel about foreign policy ultimately mean nothing to me in a relationship. What I care about is how you treat me and how you treat others.

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