The Trump campaign’s conduct at Arlington is shocking but not surprising | Kevin Carroll

Nowhere in that vast cemetery is Reagan's point driven home as poignantly as in section 60, which embraces those men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice at painfully young ages since 9/11. Here the dates on the simple headstones are within memory, the grief of loved ones is raw and visitors may witness acts of tenderness in response.

Good manners, Jane Austen observed, hold a society together. George Washington copied longhand in boyhood and preserved into adulthood a list of 110 "Rules of Civility & Decent Behavior". Another general turned president, Dwight Eisenhower, cautioned in his Guildhall address after VE Day that "humility must always be the portion" of any man who receives acclaim earned by others' sacrifices.

Donald Trump and his staff knew - and were reminded of - federal regulations specifically prohibiting the misconduct their campaign engaged in at Arlington's section 60 this week. But the law aside, only a gross lack of manners, decency and humility could incline a person to film a fundraising appeal over the resting places of dead men and women who cannot decline to participate in the coarse spectacle. The photo of a grinning Trump giving a jaunty thumbs-up over these patriots' graves is an indelible image of narcissism risen to the point of sociopathy.

Worse is the allegation that two Trump staff members assaulted a small, middle-aged female Department of the Army employee who attempted to enforce the regulation and preserve the cemetery's dignity. The victim reportedly refrained from filing charges due to a reasonable fear of violence or harassment from Trump's supporters. Meanwhile, Trump's campaign defamed this woman as mentally ill. His running mate, JD Vance, said Kamala Harris could "go to hell" for her campaign's suggestion that the unauthorized footage was intended for use as political footage - just before Trump used it for exactly that.

This ugly incident would have derailed the candidacy of any presidential nominee before Trump's crude emergence on the American political scene in 2016. In 2024 it is already, probably intentionally on Trump's part, being replaced in the news by reaction to his social media posts making lewd innuendos about Harris, and QAnon threats to imprison Democratic party leaders. But it is part of a pattern of disrespect for and misuse of the United States military that bears upon Trump's fitness to serve again as president.

Trump infamously described America's dead from the first world war as "suckers" and "losers". Trump also asked my former boss, White House chief of staff John Kelly - on Memorial Day and over the section 60 grave of his Marine son killed in Afghanistan - "What was in it for them?" I walked up to a visibly shocked Kelly moments after that exchange, the details of which he later confirmed.

Trump demanded military equipment parades in Washington of the kind Soviet leaders held on May Day in Moscow's Red Square, but disdained appearing with wounded service members. He called America's service chiefs "dopes and babies" and needled them about their public sector pay - God only knows what he thinks of enlisted troops who make a fraction of a general's salary.