- by foxnews
- 08 Jan 2025
"I am a guy who, when I don't enjoy something, I'll tell you I don't," Reddit user "Ness_Lucas" wrote at the start of his post on the social media site a few days ago.
As of Sunday, the post had accumulated over 6,000 reactions.
He added, "But if I commit to something, I'll see it through to the end without complaining."
He added, "Walking downhill is the easiest thing ever. It's like being nature's passenger princess. You just put your foot forward and let gravity do all the work."
He went on, "Walking uphill, conversely, is very draining and leaves me sweaty."
He continued, "I don't make a point to complain about something when I do it, so when I was walking uphill, despite not liking it much, I held [a] basic conversation with my brother."
He added, "Not because of any fault of my brother. I just didn't find the activity fun. Not even bad, just satisfactory."
However, "I don't like it when people ask for my opinion and get upset when I give my honest answer," he said.
"If I'm not having fun, I'll just say I'm not having fun."
Wrote one commenter in the top-rated response, garnering some 21,000 reactions, "'It's been a fun day hanging with you, but, man, this hike is steep' [or] 'I'm looking forward to the downhill bit!' That's the sort of polite answer people are looking for."
Another individual put it this way, responding to the first commenter, "Exactly! It's a small social nicety that expresses that 'I'm happy to spend time with you, even if I don't enjoy the activity.'"
Yet another person said pointedly, "You are perched on your self-anointed pedestal and expecting everyone to treat you like a little princess. Your brother probably regrets ever going on a hike with you. Sometimes in life you have to walk uphill to get to where you're going."
A different commenter let the Reddit poster off the hook but shared this suggestion: "Not everyone is into hiking. That's a personal choice. But a better option would be to talk with your brother and compromise on doing something you will BOTH enjoy."
Fox News Digital reached out to a psychologist for thoughts.
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